Finally the day has come when you should go through life taking your own decisions and responsibilities. Calma is a stage of constant learning and personal growth like never before.
How to learn to be independent
Independence starts learning, whether learning new techniques, newer, more practical or more ours, or with learning new concepts in order to apply them to our pace and taste, and can thus be self-sufficient and stand on ourselves.
Independence is an opportune time for all this learning. When we left the maternal or paternal home and open ourselves to life with our own engines, the world around us seems a bit different, maybe a little scary, but always a little ours.
Those who have lived in dormitories, either organizations or associations of friends, usually remains the financial support by parents. It’s a great workout for the afterlife, but enjoys many amenities. But when we achieve economic independence , to avail ourselves with our own actions and work, we must learn to make everything ourselves, with thoughtful tips to experienced parents, neighbors, and friends who have been through similar experiences ears.
In regard to housework, no such “doing” to learn. You must surrender to the work firmly, and carry them out if you’ve never done before. Thus, you make some mistakes or, perhaps, the result will not be optimal at first, which tells you that you can continue to practice and improve, every day a little more until it is your turn to advise others.
Do not forget that one query is not ignorant, but wise . Learning to listen to advice, to evaluate them and take from them whatever benefit us in our own ideology, it is always the most useful tool. Do not be afraid to ask how to do something, and never hesitate to “ask” the same object. We refer to the instruction manuals and signals indicative that both have rejected before. The time of independence is right to start reading labels, manuals, posters and recommendations, to follow them as provided by the manufacturer of the object, then go adapting, with time and practically to our comfort.
It is important that you do not be put off by a bad result. Perhaps the first time you clean the floor of your new home (your first home, own) is no longer wonders, but certainly that practice will achieve it shine, even if you had never done before. Remember that practice makes perfect, and this is the place to give real shape to this ideology case.